Coming this week is the second installment of my Masturbation Odyssey, this time focusing on the discovery of my very own G-spot: that erogenous pleasure zone that transforms masturbation and sex into orgasm. If you don’t “do” the G-spot, it’s unlikely that you are having vaginal orgasms, unless you are stimulating a deeper spot of the vagina.
Some doubt its existence, some doubt its importance, but to remain indifferent to the G-spot is to have never discovered it. If you take anything away from Sexualista, I hope it’s an animalistic desire to awaken and trigger this elusive spot of the female anatomy. Every woman deserves this sexual pleasure, but some homework of the masturbation kind is required.
Meantime, I’d like to share a few of my posts on Twitter.com as Sexualista1. Twitter affords me an opportunity to post little snippets of what I’m reading or thinking about on any given day. Too many topics to possibly blog about, so tapping out brief tweets keeps the conversation moving. I hope to stand out from the sexpack, rather than wither away like uninspired oral sex. A few of my recent tweets follow:
Chivalrous guys are a modern marvel and hot as hell. It pays to be a damsel in a tight dress.
We are hungry, curious voyeurs of erotica: hence the profitable feed of romance novels, erotic fiction, and porn. We orgasm vicariously.
A confident alpha male will win the girl. Women anticipate satisfying sex with assertive guys and can’t resist their charms.
A full-body vaginal orgasm convulses the entire core of a woman’s body, causing involuntary spasms and constricts the vagina and the anus.
Reports say sexual dissatisfaction ruins nearly half of all marriages and leads to infidelity in 50% of relationships. Join the conversation.
“…people are in denial of their sexual issues, so the first step to overcoming your sexual repression is to admit it…” – Eyal Matsliah
Most people want to please their sexual partners, but you have to show up and speak up about what turns you on.
No two women will define orgasm the same – women explain it according to their experience and cultural conditioning.
There are few things more pleasurable that tracing your clit with a powerful vibrator then squealing and squirting in rapture! Wow!
Seduce her so well that sucking your cock is HER idea. Never shove it in her face unless you’re the sex god who can make her cum. Boorish.
A sexy, seductive woman is a lovely, feminine creature to watch. She is confident, fearless, and moves like a ballet in your soul.
With a cultural perception that sex should be orgasmic, we fear a label of “dysfunctional,” “frigid,” or “broken”.
A silent partner works in the business world, but it’s a turn-off during sex. Subtle moaning is very sensuous and arousing. Make some noise.
Sexperts assume that women are naturally open to orgasmic stimulation. Transition from sexual repression to liberation is a gigantic leap.
Shopping for a vibrator is a no-brainer. Skip the battery-powered toys and splurge on a more powerful rechargeable model. Viva la orgasm!
The excruciating moment when you’re about to orgasm, and your vibrator quits. Buzzkill. Shoot me now.
Achieving orgasm is the last frontier for many women. For anorgasmic women, achieving orgasm is a pivotal experience.
Sex is subjective and only empirical to you. Question everything. Inquire. Explore. Own it.
Now that lesbianism is the hot norm, bicurious sex among straight men is the new chic. Hot topic among the liberati.
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