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The art of female orgasm: the final frontier for women.  Sexual satisfaction: lifestyle; satire; all things sexual.  No secrets. The blog your mother never read.

Our culture hints that women are “dysfunctional and frigid” if they aren’t having orgasmic sex; yet, it’s statistically atypical and far from the norm. For women pressured with the stresses of work and family, soak-the-bed sex may be their last concern. If they’re indifferent to sex, women may be resistant and suspicious of society’s sexual overtones and propagandized hints of what they’re missing.

Women are quick to blame themselves for lack of orgasm without ever knowing the path to get there. Overall, it’s difficult to engage women in the discussion because sex education ranks low on their priority list. I hope to help change that.

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“I very much appreciate your (blog) and particularly your intellect – human sexuality is a wonderfully diverse and fascinating subject.” – A.

“You have a special flare/talent for being able to convey relevant information in an exciting erotic way which is why people enjoy reading you. Not everyone can pull that off.”- D 
 
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The art of female orgasm: the final frontier for women.  Sexual satisfaction: lifestyle; satire; all things sexual.  No secrets. The blog your mother never read.

Our culture hints that women are “dysfunctional and frigid” if they aren’t having orgasmic sex; yet, it’s statistically atypical and far from the norm. For women pressured with the stresses of work and family, soak-the-bed sex may be their last concern. If they’re indifferent to sex, women may be resistant and suspicious of society’s sexual overtones and propagandized hints of what they’re missing.

Women are quick to blame themselves for lack of orgasm without ever knowing the path to get there. Overall, it’s difficult to engage women in the discussion because sex education ranks low on their priority list. I hope to help change that.

                                                           ________________

“WOW sexy and HOT blog. Now what do I do with my wet panties at work? LOL” – M

“I very much appreciate your (blog) and particularly your intellect – human sexuality is a wonderfully diverse and fascinating subject.” – A.

“You have a special flare/talent for being able to convey relevant information in an exciting erotic way which is why people enjoy reading you. Not everyone can pull that off.”- D 
 
Top 10 New Sex Blogs for 2017

 

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Special Shout-Out to those fun-loving swingers who are giving me the best support and feedback a sex-blogger could ask for!

Swingers
Swingers in PA


Pennsylvania

Why

 

Veni vidi vici – Julius Caesar.

I’m writing this blog because I believe we are under-educated about sexual function and satisfaction and I’m pissed about that.  A recovering anorgasmic, I’ve spent a lot of time researching and a fair amount of money subscribing to sexpert advice products learning how to achieve orgasm. It’s not rocket science, but I’ve learned that achieving orgasm for women requires education, personal masturbation, and a patient, willing partner. 

I believe that sexual dissatisfaction is grossly under-reported because no one wants to be the odd one out at the fuckfest portrayed in popular media. Pop culture, erotica, and porn portends that everyone’s having incredible orgasmic sex when statistical studies belie the notion.   

I’ve proven to myself that chronic anorgasmia is a reversible condition, given the eagerness to learn and a good set of how-to skills. The internet is rife with pertinent sex education and well-intentioned but editorialized advice. Sex is subjective and only empirical to you. There are no cookie-cutter solutions to achieve orgasm, as all women respond differently, but I suggest following tried and tested methods that seem to work for most women.  

 I intend to write about these subjects, not as an academic, but to subjectively funnel what I’ve learned along the way, e.g., what worked for one sexually repressed, stressed out middle-aged woman. 

And, I’m going to jazz things up a bit with seedy, shameful stories of  my sexcapades as a blatant satirist preoccupied with a Phyllis Diller complex.    

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